Category Archives: Intuitive Living

LET GO of “Holding It Together”

NOTE: This is an extract of the Day 7 challenge from the “September 10-day Letting Go Challenge” I held on Instagram.  If you would like to read the other day’s content, head HERE.  “You have so many layers, that you can peel away a few, and everyone’s so shocked or impressed that you’re baring your soul, while to you it’s nothing, because you know you’ve twenty more layers to go”.  Today’s challenge may seem to be against all our beliefs, of being strong, of being resilient, of being powerful.  But sometimes, “falling apart” seems to be the only way that leads to clarity and it is exactly what is required for us to reveal those inner layers that deeply hidden underneath. When we try to hold it together, ​we make do.we disconnect with our true feelingswe turn a blind eye.Each day, we

How NOT To Lose Yourself To Comparison

As we are stepping into 2nd half of the year, many of us are honouring this time by reviewing what we have achieved, where we are standing and where we desire to be in the next 6 months … Last night, I was reading a respected Feng Shui consultant friend’s post on Facebook, detailing how many numbers of consultancy jobs she aims to achieve in the next 6 months. I am grateful that she shared how setting her goals have been imperative to her success, I will be cheering her on whole-heartedly because that is her truth and she is living her purpose. At the same time, I also acutely aware that they are not mine.  When we see other people’s goals, ambitions and desires, we often immediately compare them to ourselves’, especially in the entrepreneur world. A few years ago, I would have felt pressured, burdened

8 Ways To Add Magic To The New Year

If you are feeling behind or even guilty of not yet setting any New Year’s Resolutions, then don’t be! I’ve never been a fan of those resolutions, because somehow they feel a bit ‘pressured’, set you up for failure and they are based on a mindset of ‘lack’. Instead, why not welcome and celebrate the new year with a mindset of ‘plenty’ – start with a list of what you have done right so far, knowing that all is as it should be right now, that you are already perfect. Once you’ve done that, below are some suggestions to add more magic and sparkle to enhance the energetic shift heralding the Year of the Fire Rooster. Choose what best resonates with you and what makes your heart flutter. The best news is, the lunar Chinese New Year does not arrive

The Gifts of 2016

As 2016 is rushing towards the end, I have been consciously creating some much-needed space – to rest, to reflect, to anchor so I can start the new year with mindfulness, honesty and gratitude. As my mind cast back over the last 365 days, I want to honour the gifts that 2016 has given me to mark the passing of the old year. 1. I’ve learned to embrace the ‘UNKNOWN’ wholeheartedly. Because when nothing is certain, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. 2. My fears are the gatekeepers of my GREATEST GIFTS. It leads to my ‘personal treasure’, my deepest desires. 3. For all those things that didn’t happen when I wanted and expected it to, THANK YOU! 4. Little did I know, it was the moment I began to loosen my grip, I started to discover my MAGICAL POWER.  So THANK YOU 2016. You have exceeded my expectations in

To My Shadow Self

Dear Shadow Self For years, I have been avoiding you, pretending so hard not to see you, keeping you under wraps, disowning you. As if as soon as I acknowledge you, I will be ashamed, persecuted and put away forever by my circle of imaginary judges. But no matter how hard I try, I know you are there. Until one day, I collapse in exhaustion and no longer really care. I decided if I can’t rid of you, I might as well have a good look at you. The moment I look into your eyes, I know that you are my friend… for as long as I have lived. As soon as I confronted you and faced you front-on, I saw shadows – but I also saw light. Waves of calmness and relief washed over me. I was no longer